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Artist Pam’s Matching Profile

Hi, this is Pam, a freelance artist. I’ve been drifting for too long in the ocean of dating, now I want to find an anchor, a muse to be together, to laugh, to travel, to love and to take adventure on the journey call life together. Here’s my information and what I’m looking for in a woman, if you’re interested in me, you’re more than welcome to reach out and find out if we can be a good match!

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Personal Info:

Name

Pamviles (Pam for short)

Gender

male, looking for a woman to love and marry

Contact

WhatsApp: +86 17602866219

Polish number: +48 792470212 (for calling only)

Email: pamviles@163.com

Instagram: pamviles_art

TikTok: ArtistPam

Art website: Home | pamviles

Birth

1990.2.19 ( I look younger even compare to other Chinese )

Height&Weight

170cm tall; weight is around 60kg

Languages

English, Cantonese, Mandarin Chinese. All fluent level.

Nationality

Chinese

Current Residency

Warsaw, Poland

Hometown

Dongguan City, Guangdong Province (the most depveloped province), China 

Education

Bachelor degree in Mathematics, I can be quite logical sometimes.

Job

Founder of Global Love China, artist, writer, curator, sculptor, designer, content creater, landlord

Health Condition

All healthy, no STDs, no allergies to anything, but I don’t drink alcohol. We some Asian have ALDH2 deficiency.

House/Car Condition

I have a 5-floors house building all to myself, I live alone in my house in China, enough space for two people or start a family.

I have my own car, I can drive us to different cities to travel, to enjoy beautiful beach and mountains.

Maritual/Children Status

Single, never married before, never had children before.

monthly income

Depends. I have basic income around €1000 by renting out some properties in China. I also have other incomes from art and other jobs. When I live in China, since I already have my own house, it’s enough to live for sure.

Smoke or Drink

I don't smoke or drink.

Religious or no

No

Interests and Hobbies

  • Reading: classic literature such as Shakespeare, Oscar Wilde,etc; philosophy; science(history of quantum physics and others); history.

  • Movies: sci-fi; real-story based movies; and many others. I like to watch movies with the one I love, and cuddling her.

  • Museums: art museums and galleries, other historic museums.

  • Theater: I enjoy all kinds of stage performance, I used to write plays.

  • Walking in the park or by the river. It's nice to enjoy some nature after a day's work.

  • Jogging and swimming, I really like sea.

  • Picnic: there're some beautiful parks in my hometown to have relaxing picnic.

  • Road trip: I always want to drive to travel across China with my future wife.

  • And many more!

My Personality

In my perspective, I think I'm

  • very open-minded, willing to embrass new ideas and different cultures, able to admit I could be wrong.

  • creative. Being able to create, either art or writing, is one of the most important thing to give me the meaning of life and fullfillment.

  • rather intelligent and logical, maybe because my major was maths in university. When there's a problem in life, I'd rather try to solve it than just complaining.

  • can be romantic when with the right person. I did a lot of silly romantic things for the girls I fell for.

  • kind and caring for the one I love.  

  • extrovert when I need to. I used to be very shy, but then I realized we only live once, so I try to force myself to get out of my comfort zone.

  • honest and straight-forward. I prefer to hear honest opinion even if it hurts rather than some nice but untruthful comment. There's a very thin line between honest and rude, and people sometimes easily confuse them.

  • willing to try everything new as long as it doesn't do huge damage to myself or the society. The passion of life lies in trying new things!

  • mood swing based on weather. 

  • most Cantonese people can be quite practical when it comes down to real-life situation such as money expense. I think it's because many products in the world used to made from my hometown, so we know how much they actually cost. And they think it's rather stupid to spend way much more than its worth. we call it IQ tax.

 

I believe people change with time and situation, at least in my case. Sometimes I can be very logical, other time can be quite implusive and emotional. 

Diet Type

Mix diet, I can almost eat everything, but no fish.

Lifestyle

• I don’t smoke or drink;

• I normally sleep around 10-11pm and wake up around 6-7am;

• I normally cook at home (I can cook for you everyday);

• I’m a very hygienic person;

• I like to keep things clean, tidy and organized. (if you don’t like cleaning, I will do it);

• Trying to have a healthy lifestyle.

What I'm looking for

Serious relationship, hopefully marriage. If I can find someone who can share connection and willing to get married, I'd love to marry her. 

Love language

Physical touch! When it comes to someone I love, I really enjoy holding her hand and cuddling her. physical touch is very important to me.

Opinion about having children

Not sure yet, maybe in the future if my partner wants.

Idea about marriage life

• I prefer to have a relatively equal relationship in our marriage, no matter in family role or financial contribution.

• We respect each other, always have open and honest communication.

• Marriage shouldn't be competitive, one should not have power over another. We grow together, support each other in our hobbies, careers, and personal interests. Also emotionally.

• We should always be honest with each other, but not prying each other's privacy. We can share our secret in our own pace, not by forcing.

• If there’s argument, we can argue constructively, we need to learn to compromise sometimes, and to forgive. Don't hold grudge on each other.

• We show kindness and careness toword each other, don't take it for granted but appreciate the efffort of one doing for another.

• We share quality time together, whether it’s through shared hobbies, travels, or simple daily routines, I like to cuddle.

• I don’t mind doing the household chores if you don’t want to. I have some robots in my house to clean the floor.

• We share financial contribution to the family together as much as we can. If one makes more can contribute more, vise versa. we can be transparent about finances and plan together. Setting budgets, saving for future goals, and discussing financial decisions openly.

• Life is unpredictable, and being able to adapt to changes and support each other through various life stages is crucial.

The girl I’m looking for:

Her age range

20-35 years old. Age doesn’t matter that much to me. But I hope she tries to stay healthy and look young.

Height and Weight

Doesn’t matter much to me. But I prefer healthy body type.

Her education

Doesn’t matter, but I hope she’s willing to learn new things.

Nationality or Race

I don’t care which country she’s from or what race she is. But we need to meet in reality, I don’t do long-distance relationship.

Her Monthly Salary

Doesn’t matter, but I hope she’s financially independent.

Her Language

She needs to speak English, I want to be with someone who can communicate.

Her Religion

I prefer she's not religious or at least not too religious.

Her Maritual Status
and Children

I don't care if she got married before, as long as she's single now. I prefer she doesn’t have any child though.

If she has a house or car

Doesn’t matter

If she smokes or drink

I prefer she doesn’t smoke, doesn’t drink or drink less

If she wants to stay in China or live elsewhere

Wherever she prefers. Depending on our situation.

We can live in China if she wants, we can live in my own house with enough space, living in China can be very safe, convenient, clean, techonological advanced and affordable.

I also don’t mind living in her country or wherever in the world, as long as it’s safe.

Anything else to expect

  • I hope she can be open-minded, open to different ideas and cultures.

  • I hope we share not just physical attraction, but also emotional and intellectual connection.

  • I hope she shares a healthy lifestyle as me.

  • I hope she’s someone that we can have meaningful conversation, talk about life, art, etc.

  • I hope she enjoy physical touch as me, like holding hand and cuddling.

  • I hope she’s not too material that only care about shopping and fancy things.

 

Overall, the attraction and connection are most important to me, if we have very strong attraction and connection, I can overlook other things from above.

After reading my matching profile, if you are still interested in me and you think you're the one I'm looking for, please contact me! let's meet and get to know each other, to see if we share a spark, a connection. Who knows, maybe we can build something beautiful together!

Find me on:

WhatsApp: +86 17602866219 (I prefer to talk here)

Instagram: pamviles_art

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